Is a Sexy Voice More Attractive Than a Pretty Face?

I read an article in Psychology Today entitled, Is a Sexy Voice More Attractive Than a Pretty Face? My question with the statistics and the studies is not whether a sexy voice is more attractive than one’s face but how they judged their findings.

There is no doubt that women find men with a deep voice both sexy and attractive – the late great Barry White had not only an incredibly rich, warm sensual singing voice but his speaking voice was just as alluring. We swooned over this man.

However, I disagree about part of the information regarding the female voice. The article said that “men prefer women with higher-pitched voices. Women with higher-pitched voices are perceived to be younger-as well as thinner.” In all my years of teaching voice, I have not found that men prefer women with high-pitched voices. Quite the opposite. Of all the great roles in the movies where a sensual voice was warranted, the movie companies did not select Fran Drescher, Wanda Sykes or Anna Kendrick!

There is a great scene in the movie Victor/Victoria in which the lovely and sexy Lesley Ann Warren is trying to seduce James Garner. Garner has recently switched his affections from Warren to Julie Andrews. You can see by his expression that Warren’s high-pitched whiny voice is turning him off.

[Incidentally, for comedy, a high-pitched annoying voice is a bonus. Listen to Jane Curtain’s nasal whine when she is playing a comedic role; then listen to her speak in an interview. Curtain’s ‘real’ speaking voice is wonderfully resonant.]

What makes a voice attractive is its warmth. A voice which is being powered by the chest cavity has warmth. Unfortunately, most people (99%) are not using their cavity in this manner; therefore, their voices lack warmth. Add the chest cavity to the placement of voiced sound, however, and you have voices like that of Scarlett Johansson, Michelle Pfeiffer, Angelina Jolie, Felicia Rashad, and Kathleen Turner.

The question I have for the statistics which were cited in the article from Psychology Today is whether they were questioning the men about their motives: were the men judging the female voice as to whether they just wanted to hook up with her or whether they really wanted to listen to what she was saying? A high-pitched female voice may signify thinner and younger but let’s be honest about the motive. A 50-year-old man looking for a 20-year-old is not looking for intellect! He’s looking for a face without wrinkles, breasts that are firm, and legs without cellulite! If she sounds like a bimbo, oh well.

On the other hand, a deep, rich, resonant female voice sounds not only more sensual but much more confident. Whose voice would you recommend for a company’s board of directors? Kelly Ripa’s or Julia Ormond’s?

Yes, you can sound more confident. Yes, you can sound sexier; however, you must first discover your ‘real’ voice – the one that’s hiding inside your chest just waiting to be found.

Sexy Army Costumes

Why not get a Sexy Army Costume for Halloween this year? I can’t tell you how many times a man in uniform turned my head…and Gents, isn’t it the same for you when you see a Lady in the Armed Forces?

An army soldier is sexy…take a look at how women swooned over John Wayne in all his fighting films. He’s not the only one who looked fantastic in uniform. Those oldies but goodies don’t hold a candle to our sexy uniforms of more recent movies. Remember how dashing Matthew Broderick, Denzel Washington looked in their Civil War Uniforms in the film, Glory? How about Sylvester Stallone in Rambo? Not shabby…very sexy in his own sort of uniform.

Older movie fans will remember the Great Escape with none other than these sexy uniformed men…Steve McQueen, James Garner and Charles Bronson. Wow…for us older gals, that’s just too sexy!

Girls, cool down…run out and get that man of yours a sexy uniform costume of his own…and make sure to get one just as hot for yourself! The Major Trouble women’s costume is…well…Major Trouble and so are the Sergeant camo boots that will go with it. Sergeant ” In ” Arms Adult Costume…let’s just say this is one good looking costume uniform. The GI Gal double zip dress is a really cute adult costume for you Army gals.
Sexy uniforms may start with the Army, but they don’t stop there.

There are good looking Sailor, Marine and Air Force uniforms out there as well. And the police uniforms look Sexy too. So, if it’s Sexy Army uniforms…or just uniform costumes you are looking for, you’ve got plenty to choose from.

Some people just love to see a man or woman in a uniform, and uniform costumes are just as sexy and attractive as the real thing. You can get all the accessories you need to complete your army costume at any online or local costume store.

Sexy Date Ideas

Good quality time with your partner helps in maintaining a healthy relationship. However, there comes a time when either of you are busy with work and other things that are equally important with your relationship. It is very essential that you bring back the good old days and enjoy the first memories of your relationship like your first date. Dating comes in several types and for partners who likes to have fun and looking the fires of desires with your partner, do these effective sexy date ideas to seduce your significant other.

1. Drive-In Movie. Reminisce your teenage years when you get in the car and go to drive-in movies. The drive-in movie was made for making out. This sexy date idea will surely entertain you and give you fun.

2. Bath Together. You can bath together with rose petals and scented candles in the tub. Do not forget to play sexy music to complete your sexy date idea. Taking a bath together makes a seductive, sensual and sexy date with your significant other which is not hassle.

3. Costume Party. Role-Playing in character and dressing up costumes makes your date feeling naughty and sexy. Help her decide what costume to wear and choose that shows her asset and creativity.

4. Striptease him! Go to your nearest underwear store and get some sexy date ideas or research online. Get some ideas from burlesque or rental shops that have rents under wears. It’s guaranteed that your significant other will love with this naughty treat.

5. Give a sensual massage. Massages are good especially for busy couples who are busy and want to de-stress once in a while. This is not only relaxing but at the same time seductive to your partner.

6. Vacation! One of the best sexy date ideas is taking a vacation with your partner to somewhere quiet and relaxing. Keep in mind that seduction doesn’t always happen at home. As a matter of fact, a lot of couples enjoy dating by going some places that are fun and enjoyable. Add massage and spa in your to-do list while going there. Try a week-long vacation to a beach that you have been wanting to visit.

7. Sexy SMS! A cheap date idea is sending your partner sexy text messages. It is the most inexpensive way of seducing your partner and you can spend long hours just having fun and getting sexy. Use your seductive sexy date ideas to make it memorable.

8. Read a Sex Book Together. Nothing is sexier than reading a sex book together with your significant other. You can purchase it either online, read it through the internet or maybe craft your own sex book. Think of the sexy date ideas that your partner likes or sexy date ideas that you have never explored before.

9. Dancing. There is no need for you to be a good dancer but nearly every woman who enjoys a night on the dance floor and can let her man dance is sexy. Dancing is a great sensual and sexy that is a perfect mood for seduction.

10. Burlesque Show. Simply the atmosphere and mood in a burlesque show is a sexy date idea. This is different from a strip club and women who are in the burlesque show are playful and sexual. You can whisper in her ear to try her own striptease when you two of you get home.